A few years ago my Grandparents came to me in a dream. In the dream, I answered the door and they both were standing there holding suitcases and told me that they had come to stay for awhile. These two Grandparents had passed when I was very young. Several weeks later my Aunt, their daughter, passed away unexpectedly. I know this is a common experience for many people as well as, an unexpected one, for many who do not believe in a psychic universe.
About four months after this, I had a second encounter/dream that was quite different but which had almost the exact same outcome. In this dream, I felt an energy moving down a hall towards a door that I did not want it to open passing another door that I knew it wouldn’t try to open because that room was empty. I could not see this entity, but I surely knew that it was their. It was very overwhelming in it’s essence to say the very least. I also knew that someone was in that room that I wanted to shield from this entity. I wasn’t sure what to do so I yelled at it with all my might, except my yell felt more like a stream of pure energy as it came out of me. I knew that this entity was so incredibly, energy enriched, that I doubted it would even notice my energy stream.
Almost immediately, after my stream made contact with this energy, it was amplified a thousand times and returned in my direction knocking me spiritually off balance. I was certainly no match for its energy. I did, however, succeed in getting its attention. In an instant it was all around me literally pushing in on me from every direction until I felt like I was in a cocoon without any means of escape.
In just a moment, I heard, or perhaps felt, it communicate the following to me, “You are not the one!”
This entity quickly moved off and away from me. I tried to follow it to see if I could learn anything more about it, but it was far to quick. And then I woke up.
Three weeks after this strange encounter/dream my Uncle passed away. The same Uncle that had been married to my Aunt who had passed a few months earlier. Was this the reason that I knew that the entity wouldn’t even try to enter the empty room that it passed by, because it had already been in that room before?
So your becoming a conduit to them,which in turn will heighten your own intuitive powers to see into the etherical realms that you wernt born with, but totally awaken at certain intervals during your life experiences here to eventually reach your own souls higher aspect of-self.....
Sounds to me that you are all members of Abraham's children (Jews, christians and muslims) soul family? Each soul family has their own traditions and ways of passing away. "Angel of death" is "authorized" to take away souls only of the soul family he belongs to and is "employed" for this job for them.
but to your story, it reminds me a lot of multiple stories from India, where people get dream of being brought by spirits to black guy with big book, who looks at them and sends them back because it is not their time, that the spirits took wrong guy, and then someone dies nearby, person of the same name as the one who was taken by mistake.