A Lovers trouble

[Arbellason Marucha]

Well I am in a bit of a problem. I have an elven lover, I can see her at times and she can see me. We can communicate but we are stuck in two different realms we can see into them but cannot pass into them. It tears at my heart knowing that she is the one I've been with for thousands of years yet we are denied the ability to be with each other. I was granted the ability to enter the realm she is in one day but only that day and that has torn me apart more knowing the energy I can feel. Has anyone else experienced anything like this or have advice for a distraught lover. 

[Arbellason Marucha]

We have the wedding planned now (we thought of nearly the exact same things) now we just have to wait for the right time when both of us can finally get away from our lives. I have never been so happy, after all the pain and sorrow I have finally found her.

[Arbellason Marucha]

I wished hard enough it would seem for now I know her physically. She is very much like me with many of the same troubles in this life but undoubtedly her, when we met we had a connection we had never know we had yet we had it. If all goes as planned we are being handfasted in 2017.

[BlueTiger]

My love who is Tuatha De Danan though not physicaly here, she is here with me. We do interact every day. Though i didnt alsways hear and see here as clearly as i do now. It did take some time. She did help me in many ways. Still does to this day. Along with many others. With work and meditation i have been able to go to the Otherworld. Where i could see feel and taste. I do not get to go there as often as i would like to. Though i try to every day. I also have gotten to meet others. Even my children who are no longer children. They are much like my self. My son (in this life) he does get to interact with her as well as the others around me. She and others do await for me to return after this life. They even said there will be a large celebration for when i am to return. I get to go to many celebrations. Though some times they can be a bit to much for me so i do not get to stay there long. The food and drinks are amazing. 

Any ways though try to work on your connection to her. Also in time to the Otherworld. In time you too will get to go there threw meditation. Even get the needed time together. 

[Arbellason Marucha]

Ugh how could I have forgotten the fact that we actually do meet mentally in a garden we found one night. It was after a very interesting dream that we found this. I was hurt with many wounds and I was walking upon a road of sorts and on either side was trees and hedges with flowers of many colors. I walked until I came upon a inn. Inside three woman helped me in three aspects one healed my wounds, one gave me hope, and the last gave me directions to that garden.

[Morell Sunweaver]

By the gods, thank you Rionath, you reminded me of things I have forgotten.

[Rionagh]

I have a similar situation in that my Sidhe husband and I have also been together for many thousands of years, but we are currently in two different realms until I return Home to him at the end of this current human lifetime. He has explained to me that our view of "separation" over here can be slightly different from theirs. Two beings' energies can reach one another easily, and the only separation that occurs is the more "physical" aspect of things. I've found that the more I attune to his energy and the more I think of all of existence as just one long moment, the easier it is to stay in this moment and let events unfold as they must in order to bring us together again in the same plane of being. I try to focus on all the ways we are together, and not on the one way in which we're currently apart.

I guess what I'm saying is that if you can feel your lover's energy, then she's with you in so many ways, and you are never truly separated. When the time is right, you'll be together again in a more physical sense. In the meantime, there are so many ways you can continue your lives together. Mental communication is one way that can extend to so many things...while mentally connected, you can eat together, read together, have long conversations, go on picnics, play board games (you'll have to move her chess pieces or whatever, but she can tell you which moves to make)...and of course, there's the other intimate activities that involve energy exchange. Your lives together can go on as normal in all respects except for the strictly physical, so the degree of separation you're feeling is very much related to how you choose to view things. No, it's not always easy to be in two different dimensions, but it can be dealt with and it can be borne, for as long as that's necessary. There's a reason you're here, and these human lifetimes are so relatively brief in duration that if you've been with her for thousands of years already, then this 80 or so years while you're here may be just a tiny blip on your mutual radar. Be of good heart; you'll get through it! Blessings to you.

[Arbellason Marucha]

If all I have read in my runes and what has been read to via an oracle reading I will find her by Beltane of next year.

[Tara]

In the shamanistic Celtic lore we are receiving messages from multidimensional self, because the universe is very complex. That she is your lover but also you. You are love, goddess as the spirit of love within you, Aine is the goddess of love, for example but she may be answering to many names...this may be a very profound and beautiful experience, finding a way to understand across dimensions. Love is. Bittersweet sometimes xoxo otherwise how else can we come to understand and process from our position except from the heart, which does not have identity. By this I do not mean that she is any less real, but evermore real and speaking great wisdom to you by her presence.you can know this by what she is saying to you, "I love you, I want to be love." And so should your heart be so fulfilled. To be in love is the highest most profound state of harmony and sense of belonging. I believe we, like the tree people, sky people, are here to hold a connection between dimensions. We must have friends and lovers on the other dimensions, knowing we hold the connection sacred, holds these communication pathways in place. We are eternal not subject as spirit to dimension, but here on earth we hold a place of love. You will meet again in different ways all of which are blessed. There is no time, space identity that can bind spirit, so it seems xoxoxo

[Morell Sunweaver]

There is no way to give easing advice, I cannot offer you much comfort. I don't have much of it for myself. However hard times are times of gaining strengh and deepening of bounds. And finding your own strengh isn't so bad. Not an experience nice to repeat, but vauable none the less.

the denyal will end, but something must be done before it can be removed... What it is only you may know... At least you know, what do you really want...