How can we make the world a better place to live

[Julie]

[Ꮙℓἇ∂ἇ..aka Reɪvən ღ]

Weve all been doing this our whole lives, and yet its never as we envisaged, look at the hatred in the world right now, its horrid, with wars still raging and dictatorship & control in America, racism, fascist's etc, and now the outright murder of innocent people also, with immigration controllers in the USA, I wonder what is this world coming to seriously its out of balance.. its time for some really deep reflection and inner work, but I dont think its gonna change anything.. sorry my words sound negative but its the truths to what I'm witnessing online with world news etc.

[Julie]

Yes we are bearing witness Vlada, and yes we have been working on this since time began...living in this age is confusing and unsettling, and you and I have experienced much change and it doesn't seem for the better on a world view but we can both say we are trying in our own unique ways that come from the souls of our being.

My belief is like yours that we're all having to dive deeper then deeper still.  I'm glad you are here, if anyone can make positive change happen you can.

[Ꮙℓἇ∂ἇ..aka Reɪvən ღ]

Well Julie,.. Americans need to wake up and fast, as Trumps ICE are domineering people and now they are murdering them.. with the lies that get told like that woman in the USA was a domestic Terrorist... thats a load of crap, she was a innocent victim of intimidation & bullying by ICE and murdered by it..Trump needs to be voted out before he kills the countries folks morals also..

I'm so convinced now that America has Reptilian aliens in human body suits cos everyone on Trumps side is pure evil and have mental illness's and his rot has reached the core of civilisation..

Yet similar things can be said for GB also cos your Prime Minister right now he isn't that much better I'm afraid though not as dictating he's still making some rather bad decisions.. this whole illegal immigration thing is breaking people in GB too..

I'm not sure I can make any changes now, I'm still positive towards people in general but I'm also not being heard these days either..I'm just trudging on..

[Julie]

Much in the world is deconstructed in ways none of us can grasp the why of them.  Our country of England has changed so much, particularly since all the lock downs, restrictions and closing down of places to work.  Some of these things could have been avoided, as the impact on peoples health has been great, especially their mental health.  

The feeling is that we have too many people for such a small area and the government insists on the building of estates on the edge of our villages.  Our town has been deconstructed, the centre over a period of years has been knocked down and repurposed.  The centre is now the retail Park as there isn't really anything in the town to attract people.  The town centre has become a place without the regular places that "drew people in to shop".  Now the council says apartments will be built but only on the proviso that the builders can use the two existing car parks in the centre.  A big multi-storey car park was built for a huge amount of money which has had so many set backs and money loss that people here see it as a "white elephant".  Several of our hotels are being used to house immigrants, I'm not sure if they are illegal or not but it has certainly changed the face of our old railway town.  There's been demonstrations a plenty and local people feel like they are being put to one side for the immigrants and that those entering the country are being prioritised.  It isn't a good climate to live in.  

Our council spent money over and above for the coming of the HS2 train line and were told later that the line won't in fact come here.  It is now seen as another white elephant as so much work was done and money spent and the town marketed as something that won't happen.  Roads are constantly closed, diversions appear and footpaths dug up for the internet.  Pot holes everywhere which aren't put right, it's not a good picture.  I'm not sure what this next year will bring forward but I hope it's better than the previous 5 years Vlada.

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I hear you Julie, and its kinda similar here in Auckland, one previous National Govt got rid of the country owned railway lines into the main city centre of Auckland, because shipping ways took a different turn as couriers took over the postal delivery into the city and yet years later another Labour party wanted it returned as they foresaw the city expanding and public transport would be required, and so they started to do so & spent all this money on the infrastructure building tunnels and new railway lines etc, only for it to come to a grinding halt when the Govt changed hands again back to National party and this new Govt said they cant afford to complete it.. well it created a huge uproar as tax payers money had gone into it and it was required, and now this new Govt hasn't done a gawd darn thing to wards this countries advancement in population and need for a rail line into a huge & busy city,.. people are screaming as many take anything up to 2hrs to get to work in the mornings from the outskirts as there are no buses going directly into the city centre from these places, you have to get like 3-4 buses to get to work, so a train would be way faster, yet they hold it back from completion.. all the while this Govt politician's have done nothing else for this country but line their  own pockets with huge wage packet rises regardless..

Then another scenario a simple one of conversation understandings online by thoughts of people, - just the other day I was offering my empathy & compassion to a person on another site an American who stated he:- 

"It takes a special kind of animal to casually shoot a woman point blank into the face. I feel so awful"

Now take into account I did not know this man personally, nor had I conversed with him beforehand and that all he said in this comment was he felt awful :-

To which I responded with:-

"Why do you feel awful you didn’t do it?.. he did & he’s worse than an animal he’s a gun happy psycho murderer.. but I get that you feel sad for the poor woman who’s life was taken and it could have been prevented, I think half of America does think this too.

He responded back with:-

"It is more than the poor woman. It's the upward spiral of ICE atrocities, and US government belligerence. It is a snap shot of the downward spiral of the US"

to which I replied:- "

I know.. but its not your fault, he made the choice to shoot her, so he has to live with this murder on his shoulders for the rest of his life, and the way people are reacting towards him, its obviously his life is gonna be horrid, he’ll have to move his family, and or possibly change his name cos people know who he is now..

But it also isn’t going to make America great again, as your right your whole country is in a downward spiral yes sadly and its all because of one man that being ‘Trump’ he’s the evil most vile person who started all this hatred with people. I hope he gets taken out and your country can pick back up again to where it was.. looking in from afar in NZ were on you guys side, as many people here see what Trump really is."

to which then some other person came onto the conversation thread and commented to me directly and left me scratching my head,when they said:-

"You don't need to be the cause of something awful to feel awful about it. Steven was not claiming anything was his fault.

You probably didn't mean it this way, but your comments read like you are trying to tell Steven how he should feel about the spiral of awfulness you both acknowledge is happening.

I think a focus on what is happening, rather than analyzing someone's emotional reaction to it, would be a more productive path forward."

I could not believe what I was reading to be honest in that response, to what reason they even needed to say it, and to what kind of mindsets are these American people really in, its like they speak another language to us and yet they are speaking English,..

I cant get my head around the fact that this person could not read into my empathy and compassion to this other man and took my words literally as something otherwise.. there is something terribly wrong with ones consciousness if anyone cannot offer compassionate thoughts or notions to someone to help take away a pain in some way even if its a thought or notion...and not a physical hug or something, but this person couldn't see that in my words and I wondered why?..

This is the kind of comments I get on responses on the internet all the time from the USA, why can they not understand English of other people?.. what is it in the way? or that they have been taught that pushes them into another category of English speaking countries as far as understanding the written English words?..

Its no wonder they invite negative feelings towards themselves, its no wonder other people from other countries cant connect with them, if this happens constantly... its also very sad, I know its only online but with me this kind of mindset has been around since I was on the internet 14yrs ago nothing about it has changed its still happening..

Now I wanted to know was it just me thinking this, or can someone else see and sense it also..so I shared this with another person a NZer and he thought and said similar words as myself, he said "WTF is going on in these Americans minds, why are they always negative towards people and why are they missing clues in English that tell them a persons nature in their words" he didn't know, cos he too has seen this kind of talk online..

They appear to invite it towards themselves he said, or like they are in a constant battle with everyone simply to breath.. and they are so easily offended and they will bicker and debate when there was no need to do either they just miss normal clues from others..