Attempting to find the love my soul needs

[Arbellason Marucha]

I feel slightly conflicted on this subject personally, on one hand I feel I need someone who is like me quiet, observing, full of passion and dreams, someone who would gladly fly through these mortal years to get back to what is truly home and on the other side is someone not too different but much less quiet, someone who wants to see what this world has yet to offer. Though not fully explained like I would prefer as I find it hard to describe what my inner self needs I compare to the calm and the storm. I find it hard to determine which one I truly need and harder yet to actually find someone who fits either side. It probably does not help that I am not a very outgoing person and that because of what I am like I am often not very noticeable even to people who know me and are looking for me. I find it hard to go through life without a companion who can truly understand and appreciate the things that I enjoy, there are always friends but it is not the same connection my soul needs. I'm open to any thoughts or opinions at the moment so feel free to comment.

[Elidoras]

There is a soul that matches with every aspect of your needs, but before that soul can come to you, you must attract it energetically. To do that, you must become the self that you were meant to become, and then that soul will find you automatically. You must first love yourself, before anyone can love you. Find out who you truly are, and then just Be that self. When you love yourself and become who you truly are, you will be ready to meet your Twin Soul, as it will be drawn to you at the exact moment in time when your soul it's ready to meet its twin. 

[Vidjen]

we actually came here to bring some light and we are so many .... haha 

[Vidjen]

dont forget that you are the prime creator ... and always alone ... if you have a humble souls it happens to you like it did for me ... you get connected to the lone souls which are full of love and transcend this prison ( sorry for living in hell but still this earth is not dead its our library if you understood )

[Carl Gustaf Prien]

I can relate.  I do not get out much due to my health (no work or anything), plus I have age (will be 37) so it just seems harder to find those who are not married or do not have kids in the age range I am seeking (37 to 43).  Right now, all I have been doing, at least with my situation, is trying to make my Otherworld connection with her stronger, and somehow getting it to manifest "here"...while at the same time taking care of myself.

One thing I have found very comforting is using Petaltone's Tantric Love essences for single people.  I have tried a lot of essences for being single, but I have found that these work best, for me at least.  I make them by writing down the company name and the essence, and putting a small glass of water over it for a few min.  I have put these in a larger essence blend in a misting bottle with essential oils and a Cardamom pod.  I am finding that this bigger essence blend for "stepping out" and revealing oneself is really helping me overcome my initial desire to "hide" due to how I have been treated by people online (as I really do not see myself meeting her offline until sometime later) and by how the body has been treated with being abused.  It just helps overcome painful shyness and reservations around new people.